I NSLOOKUP to first check your MX records then all of your records.
Microsoft Windows [Version 6.1.7600]
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C:\Users\spt1
Athena Ready>nslookup
Default Server: destiny.tcc.dom
Address: 192.168.1.14
> set type=mx
> solardominho.com
Server: destiny.tcc.dom
Address: 192.168.1.14
Non-authoritative answer:
solardominho.com MX preference = 0, mail exchanger = smtp.secureserver.net
solardominho.com MX preference = 10, mail exchanger = mailstore1.secureserver.net
solardominho.com MX preference = 0, mail exchanger = mail.secureserver.net
solardominho.com nameserver = ns43.domaincontrol.com
solardominho.com nameserver = ns44.domaincontrol.com
smtp.secureserver.net internet address = 216.69.186.201
mailstore1.secureserver.net internet address = 216.69.186.201
ns43.domaincontrol.com internet address = 216.69.185.22
ns44.domaincontrol.com internet address = 208.109.255.22
> set type=all
> solardominho.com
Server: destiny.tcc.dom
Address: 192.168.1.14
Non-authoritative answer:
solardominho.com MX preference = 0, mail exchanger = mail.secureserver.net
solardominho.com MX preference = 0, mail exchanger = smtp.secureserver.net
solardominho.com MX preference = 10, mail exchanger = mailstore1.secureserver.net
solardominho.com nameserver = ns44.domaincontrol.com
solardominho.com nameserver = ns43.domaincontrol.com
solardominho.com nameserver = ns43.domaincontrol.com
solardominho.com nameserver = ns44.domaincontrol.com
smtp.secureserver.net internet address = 216.69.186.201
mailstore1.secureserver.net internet address = 72.167.238.201
ns43.domaincontrol.com internet address = 216.69.185.22
ns44.domaincontrol.com internet address = 208.109.255.22
When I used telnet to connect to the IP address of that you posted from and no connection was made. The first is an assumption on my part is that your Posting IP address (which only Admins & Moderators can see) is the same IP address that your server is on. With that assumption, you need to ensure that you can connect to your server.
I would start with the following:
1. There is no need for IP binding. You should use this only if you have multi-homed computer, computer with different network cards with different IP addresses, and you want your server to listen only on certain IP addresses, not on all of them. If you specify at least one IP binding, the server will listen on only that IP addresses. It will not see connections on other IP addresses, which also belong to you.
If the list of IP binding is empty, then server will listen on all available IP addresses.
2. Use Telent from inside you network and see if you can make a connection. The syntax would be Telnet [IP Address without the brackets] [PORT],
Here is an exmaple:
C:\Users\spt1
Athena Ready>telnet 192.168.12.114 25
This is a sample result from my server on port 25 (SMTP)
220-eWall v3.0.217 + ArGoSoft Mail Server SMTP Module v.1.0.7.0 at Tue, 15 Dec 2 009 18:02:03 GMT
220-Sending unsolicited commercial or bulk e-mail to Top Cat Computing's computer network is prohibited. Other restrictions are found at http://www.topcatcomputing.com/antispam.aspx.
220 Effective immediately: Top Cat Computing will no longer accept connections from IP addresses which have no reverse-DNS (PTR record) assigned.
3. Once you have the above working, on your router, use port forwarding. Sent both ports 25 (SMTP) and 110 (POP3) to your server. (If you are using IMAP you need to forward that port also).
4.With our Mail server off, run port detective (http://www.portdective.com/) on the machine where ArGo is installed and see if there is anything else blocking the ports. Some ISP do block ports and that is a whole another issue.
5. You need to update your DNS record at your ISP so that MX record points to your IP address. As an alternative, you can also use TZO to handle your DNS for your site. It's easy to set up. I have included my affiliate link to TZO here: http://www.argostuff.com/affiliatec...aspx?aid=1
That should get up and running. Please let us know how things go.